Before you knock anything down, find out what you're actually working with.
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The survey on the surveyor
measured, not claimed
I have rebuilt my life from nothing three times. Once when the 2008 crash closed my seven-figure construction company, once when Brexit took every haulage contract overnight, and once when neither of those was the actual problem.
From the outside it looks fine. The work gets done and the bills get paid. Underneath, something has stopped fitting. Tick what you recognise.
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None of that makes you weak. The usual advice just starts four steps too far along.
A fresh start sounds like freedom. It's a demolition order.
If you called me about a house with a cracked wall and I turned up and said knock it down, you'd get another builder. You'd be right to.
Survey first. Keep what's sound, take out only what's rotten.
The five load-bearing parts of a life, as The Rebuild surveys them

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David Chadwick, novelist and retired journalist

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